[Society] Virginia Tech Students Get It, So Why Doesn't the Media?
Yesterday, an ABC News article describing how the Virginia Tech Students, in the aftermath of the worse mass shooting in our nation's history, have begun to forgive Seung-Hui Cho, the lone gunman in the incident, completey floored me in a way that made me proud to be part of this generation.
Among a semicircle of stone memorials for each of the victims in the shootings on the Virginia Tech campus stands sits a stone for Cho, a stone which was removed earlier this week only to be replaced by another student much to the approval of classmates. Many "experts" and "officials" have added their opinion as to why the students have displayed such an early sign of forgiveness. One suggested that the strong Christian base of the area preaches forgiveness and the students heard that call. And if for certain individuals that can be said to be the cause, then more power to them. But, in my opinion, what these students are demonstrating is a generational understanding of such a tragedy that the older crowd running the media have no ability to comprehend.
In a generation that has grown up with a regularity of school shootings, people are finally beginning to understand that as abhorrent as Cho's actions were, as much as none of the victims deserved to die, it is not just the system that failed those victims (as so many in the media have suggested), it is us that failed Cho.
The day after the shooting MSNBC's Chris Matthews interviewed one of Cho's suitmates. Watching the interview, I was personally apalled by the way Matthews treated the the student. It seemed to me that Matthews' entire objective in that interview was to paint Cho as a demon, (and likewise, most of the rest of the media had the same goal). But the suitemate did not take his bait. At every turn, while Matthews only seemed interested in this kid telling him how obvious it was that Cho was a brutally disturbed young man, Cho's suitemate only demonstrated how they all saw him as human. The fact that he was quiet simply meant at the time that he was shy or that maybe he did not know English too well. The fact that he did not seem to have a lot of friends could've simply meant that his friends were on a different part of campus. In other words, instead of pretending to be the genius in hindsight, the young man who was bold enough to appear on Matthews' show wanted to emphasize how much of a human he and his roomates saw in Cho.
Abc News wrote about one student's feelings:Caroline Merrey, 22, jumped to safety out a classroom window in the building where Cho killed 30 people and himself. She said she was angry at Cho, but also feels sorry for him. "I don't know how I can be feeling both of those things at the same time, but I do," she said.
Merrey's reaction, for today's youth, is perfectly sound. In the time between Columbine and Virginia Tech, we have learned to feel sorry for the shooters. To Bill O'Reilly, and most of the rest of the media, I'm sure this is probably a horrific sentiment, but the difference between the generation growing up today and the blathering pundits in the media is that we are not interested in painting these shooters as demons. Their anger is just too real for us to shrug off as some unsuspecting infilitration from the devil beyond. Bewteen Columbine and Virginia Tech, this generation has learned that society brings about these demons, and as such we are often reaping what we sow.
When they started releasing reports about Cho's experiences in America, one anecdote struck me so chillingly I nearly cried. It was reported that during one of his high school classes a very quiet and unspoken Cho was called upon for a response. When he opened his mouth with broken English the class laughed at him and said, "Go back to China."
What this generation realizes, in the day-and-age of school shootings, is that a man like Cho was not a demon that was walking among us. He was a human being. And, one fact about human beings is that we are all capable of what Cho did. As I like to say, we all have the devil and Jesus Christ within us. We are all capable of the greatest good and the worst evil. I think that only "the Columbine generation" realizes this. Only we understand that comments like "Go back to China" serve to foster that demon and nothing more.
To a shy Asian immigrant like Cho, a comment like "Go back to China," yelled at you when you open your mouth for the first time to a classroom of peers, means "You do not belong here. You do not deserve the life here." "Go back to China" is a veiled way of saying "you are not worthy of freedom or opportunity, you belong in a totalitarian regime built on oppression." If Cho had gone on a rampage in the moment during which those comments were uttered, I don't think anyone would blame him. It certainly would not have made him a demon if he had acted out then. That, you see, would have been a human response.
From what I remember, a similar situation occured with the Columbine shooting. After the fact, the press was sure to demonize Eric Harris and Dylan Klebold, making sure to mention how they called a black athlete "nigger" before they shot him. This guaranteed that we would see nothing more than a racist demon behind these acts. What only one source mentioned, however, was that the student, who was vastly more popular than either Harris or Klebold, had, on more than one occasion, pushed Harris or Klebold into lockers and called them names. In other words, Harris and Klebold, whether or not they were racist, did not shoot the kid because he was black, but because he had targetted the two of them for oppression. But since it would be human to lash out at someone that picks on you, the media was sure to gloss over that fact and instead chose to portray them as racist demons without cause.
The more in which we paint the school shooters as demons, the more we are able to dismiss them and their actions as some moral or genetic anomaly, all so that we can feel better about ourselves. This only allows these types of events to continue. The Virginia Tech students, however, have made a very courageous display in that they are recognizing that Cho was human, and that to some extent we all failed him because we failed to recognize what a human pushed to the limits is capable of.
Cho considered himself a victim, and we can debate over the merits of his claims to vicitmization, but one thing I am sure of, is that in his final moments, he was empowered. If the Virginia Tech shooting teaches us one thing we should have realized a long time ago, it is that, eventually, those that perceive themselves as victims will make some move toward empowerment, and that often that move will be violent. The human will moves inexorably and unstoppably toward feelings of freedom, and to certain people that feeling can only be achieved through violence.
We can continue to see the Seung-Hui Cho's of the world as nothing more than demons, but their actions are ultimately the result of the most basic human desires. When we see such criminals as humans then we see within ourselves our own fragile psyches, and, maybe more importantly, we see a greater responsibility to do the right thing: not to make a man fight alone, not to hang him out to dry when he is being picked on for not speaking English well or for wearing a black trenchcoat.
The sick irony of it all is that if we begin to do that then Seung-Hui Cho will have achieved what he set out to do: stand up for the "weak and defenseless."


